Ways BFF relationships have changed
Nostalgic Times
Looking back on the ’70s and ’80s, life felt slower and friendships richer.
“Many remember riding bikes until sundown, hearing a parent call from the porch,
and feeling like the world was both big and familiar.”
These decades carried a simplicity and authenticity that feels rare today.
Slower Connections
Relationships relied on presence.
People spoke face-to-face, wrote letters, and used landlines.
“Words mattered because speaking longer truly cost more,”
creating deeper, more intentional connections.
Communication Styles
Before smartphones, staying in touch meant effort.
Long-distance calls were limited, and every conversation counted.
Today, messages are instant, but “many feel more disconnected than ever,” lacking tone and nuance.
Dating Norms
Dating required confidence and in-person effort.
Sharing a phone number was meaningful.
Modern dating uses apps and swipes, making meeting easier but trust harder to build,
with relationships often starting online rather than in conversation.
