A mother, estranged from her daughter Amy for years, is faced with a request to babysit her grandchildren. Amy, who excluded her mother from significant life events like her wedding, recently reached out, asking for help. The mother, feeling hurt by the past, declined, telling Amy, “You have destroyed our bond a long time ago.” Amy responded by calling her selfish and blocking her.

The mother is now questioning whether she was wrong to refuse. Experts suggest that the mother is within her rights to set boundaries, especially given the emotional harm caused by Amy’s past behavior. They advise understanding the root of the estrangement, communicating openly with Amy, and considering the impact on the entire family. It’s important to weigh the potential consequences, whether deciding to help or not. Seeking professional counseling might also help heal past wounds and improve their relationship.